While talking at four o’clock in the morning over skype with my dear friend, I suddenly realized one way in which my physical body and spiritual self are very much aligned. Our physical bodies are actually physical manifestations of our inner selves. Our strengths and ailments are both reflections of our internal states.
When practicing yoga, it is often much easier for me to allow my body to simply collapse into the more advanced form of a pose. Many times, I find it much more difficult to take on a more moderate position by controlling and restraining my muscles.
My physical flexibility has a spiritual counter part. Just as I collapse into a deep yoga pose, I also allow myself to sink into my emotions.
While I should allow myself to get into a pose or to feel an emotion, I should practice restraint as well. I should engage my core and support myself fully, even if it means using more energy and taking a more moderate form. Similarly, I need to feel my emotions and make space for them without collapsing into them.